Addiction doesn’t simply affect the addict themselves; the entire family becomes involved. You want the best for your child, especially while they are in the recovery stage of their addiction process. According to the National Institute on Drug Abuse (NIDA), 40 to 60 percent of those who have suffered from addiction will relapse in the future, so it is vital for the addicts to maintain a healthy environment when in the recovery stage. Although, you must think of yourself, too; allowing yourself to suffer will only hurt your child. So, when the time comes to make the decision of whether or not your recovering adult child lives with you, be sure to make the following considerations.
Understand the Long-term Effects That Can Linger After Addiction
Once your adult child has entered into the recovery stage, you may experience relief. While this is very positive, be aware of the problems that may continue in your life, such as health problems, financial difficulties, or relationship hardships. Mental and physical health problems may still be prevalent after an addiction is resolved, the family still be in a financial crisis due to the events leading up to recovery, and relationships among family members might be strained. If your child lives with you, be aware that these problems may be more prevalent in the home.
Do not let these potential obstacles get in the way of your recovering child living with you; make sure your recovering loved one is regularly going for check ups on their mental and physical health status. Meet with a financial planner to get your finances back in check, and you can continue planning for the future. Have your recovering loved one attend individual counseling sessions, and attend family counseling sessions with the entire family to ensure relationships are positive and healthy. Since these problems could become a serious issue, be sure to take the necessary action to solve them when your child starts living with you.
Becoming educated on addiction itself, relapsing, what triggers addiction in the first place, and any other element of addiction that will make you more empathetic towards your recovering loved one will ease tensions that arise in the house and strengthen your relationship with them. Many addiction facilities offer workshops to educate family members and provide them with information to better handle their recovering loved one.
Keep An Eye Out For Relapse
One of the benefits of having your recovering child live with you is that you can keep an eye on them more frequently to watch for the signs of relapsing. The warning signs of drug use vary from person to person, but many drug addiction warning signs can be the same; keep on the lookout for suspicious behaviors, keep open and honest communication with them, and assure that they are going to their support groups or counseling sessions on a regular basis.
Don’t Be An Enabler
An enabler is somebody who takes the responsibility for another person’s problem. In this instance, you may take the blame for your child’s addiction. Don’t do this because it only will make the problem worse; your child will begin to think that they don’t have to take responsibility for their own actions. Make sure that you let your child know that you’re there for them, but they need to do all they can to maintain sobriety.
If you or a loved one is suffering from addiction, get help as soon as possible. To learn more about addiction prevention, treatment, and the warning signs of drug abuse in adults, call SAFE Prevention at 1-877-503-2608. At SAFE Prevention, you will be provided with the resources you need to make the most effective decisions for each unique situation. Call SAFE Prevention today to get started on your journey to long-term recovery.